A new survey of 2,000 youngsters viewed that as almost 33% (31%) of little kids (ages 16-21) are performing sex acts before kissing the person.
Envision that.
Envision it was your girl. Your younger sibling. Your niece, your neighbor, or the young lady you looked after children.
Envision any young lady that you know and care for.
While you could grin at the possibility of her going out on the town, or clasping hands, or encountering a first kiss — you’re most likely rebuffed by this measurement.
Why would that be the situation?
The response is basic — sexual entertainment culture.
Pornography is a current plague.
Most youngsters are presented to pornography by age 13.
The fact that pornography is particularly destructive makes from the get-go in life, numerous kids are involving porn as a type of “sex schooling.” While kids go through pubescence, their young personalities so naive and inquisitive.
By far most of erotic entertainment offers a mistaken depiction of sex acts that could never be agreeable, in actuality.
From body weaknesses to a profoundly misanthropic comprehension of what makes “great sex,” porn twists the magnificence of human sexuality.
Vicious sex acts, sex without assent, being spit on, truly attacked or generally disregarded during sex are seen as “standard” or “exciting.”
Also, 97% of the savagery and hostility highlighted in pornography is coordinated toward ladies.
This is particularly destructive to youngster young ladies — who are being instructed (deliberately or subliminally) that sexual maltreatment is sex.
Young women are victims of porn culture.
This is why 31% of women are reporting to have engaged in sex acts before even kissing a guy.
They’re taught to prioritize what guys like. And like most teenagers, they just want to be accepted.
The effects of porn culture on young girls are too horrific to be ignored. In the study published in The Daily Mail, these were some of the findings:
- 85% of girls who were sexually active had given oral sex, with more than a third doing so before the age of 16
- Nearly one in five has felt “forced into it”
- 19% said it wasn’t consensual, and 42% said they felt pressured and “didn’t always feel in control”
The emotional ramifications on young girls who are used for their sexual value can impact them for the rest of their lives.
It can hinder them from ever developing a healthy, loving sexual relationship.
And the more that it’s normalized, and porn is encouraged as a form of “sexual exploration,” for teens and young people, the more harmful the effects will be.
Young men are victims, too.
They, too, are misinformed and their understanding of sex is completely warped.
For boys who are exposed to porn at an extremely young age, they are subconsciously trained to find objectifying and abusing women arousing. They may also be deeply misinformed to believe that women find sexual violence or aggression arousing.
The vast majority of women don’t.
It’s true, some young men are deeply troubled and in desperate need of professional help, but a large portion of them have just been misguided and indoctrinated by porn culture.
Most young men just haven’t been properly taught or conditioned to be attuned to what women actually want.
But, of course, they haven’t.
They’re getting their “sex education” from porn.
The solution
Of course, there is no “quick fix” or easy solution to this.
Porn sites aren’t going away any time soon, and with access to the internet at our fingertips, it is more of a problem than ever.
The first step is to admit that porn, as a whole, has had negative effects on society. It distorts our view of sexuality, reduces people to objects, promotes sexual violence, and becomes an addictive behavior that leads to negative ramifications on people’s mental health.
While adults are going to watch what they want to watch, we need to protect our children from porn with more urgency.
We need to protect children, period.
And until we admit that porn isn’t just “harmless fun” or a tool for “sexual exploration,” our children will continue to be victims of it.
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Final thoughts
Pornography is an epidemic and its effects on young people are disastrous.
Young girls are being taught that painful, degrading, or violent sex acts are the “standard” for pleasing boys.
Boys are being taught that it’s okay to abuse women and that sick and distorted acts are the same thing as sex.
Regardless of gender — today’s young people deserve better.
